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#1 ven73

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Posted 25 October 2016 - 08:43 AM

A week ago today we got our BFN and for the last 2 nights I've had these vivid dreams where I'm holding a baby, my baby. Last night it felt so real, she had dark hair (like me) and wearing a little purple onesie. I was telling someone that she was 2 weeks old. I woke up crying and heartbroken realizing it was just a dream. 


Although I'm keeping my mind busy during the day, I guess my sub-conscious is still processing the pain.

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Posted 25 October 2016 - 09:07 AM

Ven - I am so sorry. It's so hard to have those dreams. They are so happy during but you wake up feeling like a knife has gone through your heart. I know I had them often. And I'm sure many others here have had them too!

Big giant hugs for you in a crappy situation. And hoping beyond hope that those dreams will one day be reality for you.
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Posted 25 October 2016 - 10:41 AM

Big hug ven73. I have also had those dreams. You are not alone.

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#4 annatarz79

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Posted 25 October 2016 - 12:25 PM

i had the same dream not long ago and i woke up screaming too. it is so real that you wake up  wanting the dream to be true only to realise it was just a dream ! I hope that next time will be the time that your dream will come true. Good luck and lots of HUGS!!!

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