Hi! My name is Angela and I am now 53 yo. Several years ago I had m/c at 19 w due to weakened cervix. I went through a surgery and recovered considerably quickly. I was at my 40 back then. Do I have to tell you what impact that m/c had on me? I was unable to think about anything else but my unborn baby. I’ve only got pregnant at my 40s after ivfs de. I was getting the tx abroad and after getting embryo transfer we flew back home and one thing that left was to follow the pregnancy but in our local clinic. I was so happy getting 12w bfp and after a month I thought that I am slowly becoming a mother. We’ve bought some kids staff as on 16 w I remember the drs said that it was a boy. And 3 weeks after that mc happened. I could barely talk about my mc for years and we were seeing the psychologist who’s helped us a lot, my dh and I. Many years have passed, I went through physical and psychological tx but for these years I couldn’t even think of getting pregnant again – the fear of getting another m/c was and is so devastating. But for now I am one of those who overcame finally their struggles. I do not want to mention my previous experience in the post, but now I am in the same position as 10 years before – trying to ttc. We are opting again ivf de. Originally I am from Sweden but now live in France and clearly I want some advices on how to be with the tx and the clinics variety in Europe (if it’s possible to get some advices on those)?
I hope that it’s not too late for me to be a mother. Are there any ladies in their 40-50s who’ve become mothers only recently? Maybe you could give me some recommendations? Thanks!