First off, my heart goes out to you. I know the feeling about everyone in your family being fertile myrtle.
Have you had this discussion with your doctor? I ask because, my husband and I were dead set on having 2 5-day blasts put back, or 3 3-day embryos put back in. When push came to shove, since it was my first cycle and blah blah blah, they wouldn't do it. They said 1 5-day, or 2 3-day. We also were more than alright with twins. Actually, we kinda wanted twins. Called it "one and done". We didn't really want triplets due to all the complications that could arise, but were willing to take the risk.
We weren't happy about it, but we ended up putting in 1 beautiful 5 day. Of course, it ended in a chemical pregnancy. I seen my doctor after, and told her that we were using 2 for our FET. She agreed, but then once again, when it came down to it, she would only put back 1. That time we just flat out had a BFN.
We have since switched to another clinic. We still have 3 frosties. Our new doctor said that since our old clinic does "slow freeze", he would be willing to put back 2 at a FET. He is planning on putting us in a PGS testing study for our next fresh cycle though, and will only be willing to tranfer 1 again.
So all this being said, make sure you talk to your doctor and get their opinion.
Wish you all the best
Oct 1, 2014 - 14 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 5 make it to blast
Oct 6, 2014 - Transfer 1 beautiful 4AA blast and freeze the remaining 4
Oct 15, 2014 - Start bleeding
Oct 17, 2014 - First Beta = 6 I know it's over, clinic is still trying to be positive
Oct 19, 2014 - Second Beta = 2 BFN
Oct 27, 2014 - Laparoscopy for Endo and ovarian cysts
Feb 9, 2015 - Transfer 1 blast...clinic can't tell me the quality...isn't that weird?
Feb 22, 2015 - Beta = BFN
April 16, 2015 - Surgery to remove multiple uterine fibroids
Aug 24, 2015 - Take 3 month injection of Lupron Depot to try to help with endo pain/bleeding
Nov 24, 2015 - Take another 3 month injection of Lupron Depot
Feb 24, 2016 - Blood work and ultrasound. Was going to start prepping for FET, but thyroid is very low so need to increase meds before transfer
May 2, 2016 - start Estrace to prepare for FET (FET scheduled for May 18)
May 18, 2016 - Transfer 1 blast...again not told what quality it is. Lose one blast in the thaw.
May 31, 2016 - BFN - I ask clinic what is going on and why this isn't working. They schedule me for a biopsy and sono.
June 9, 2016 - Biopsy and Sono performed. They find fibroids in my uterus and book surgery.
June 14, 2016 - Surgery to remove uterine fibroids
September 20, 2016 - Transfer our final blast...stick baby stick
October 3, 2016 - BFN. I have never felt so broken in my life. Not sure I can continue on this journey, but must make a decision as just hours after getting my BFN, I get a call from my clinic saying that they made an error with my government funding and if I was going to continue, I must pay everything back!!!
December 8, 2016 - Here we are again! Sono and biopsy to prepare for IVF #2 in January! They see something very small forming in my uterus, not large enough to operate on at this point though.
December 19, 2016 - Start Birth Control to prepare for next cycle.
January 7, 2017 - Have ultrasound done, everything looks good to move forward. Stop BC Pill.
January 23, 2017 - 12 Eggs retrieved, all mature, 7 fertilized
January 28, 2017 - Transfer 1 little 3AB blast, 5 still hanging in there and hope to freeze them tomorrow