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#1 Kerri

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Posted 05 December 2009 - 06:45 PM

Hello,
We would like to donate frozen embryos. These frozen embryos are the result of an IVF involving an egg donor.
Our Fertility Clinic handles anonymous embryos donation, but we would prefer the process to be semi-known or known. We feel an anonymous process can be unfair for potential offsprings. The criteria used by the clinics to select potential intended parents are not always clear.
Do you have some information about the way to proceed for a semi-known or known embryo donation or what clinic in Canada would be happy to handle a semi-known or known donation porcess?
Thank you very much.

#2 mollygirl21

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Posted 05 December 2009 - 09:29 PM

Where are you located? I want to ask our clinic about the possibility of embryo donation for us rather than a new IVF cycle when we see our RE again in January. Can't wait to hear the answer to your question :)

MG
After 3+ years, my cycle history is quite long. For details on each cycle, please visit my "About Me" page

Trying since fall 2007
All tests show normal (we're "unexplained")

COH+IUI in Nov 08 = BFN
IVF # 1 Feb 09 - BFN
IVF #2 June 2009 - BFP
13 week u/s showed a missed m/c. Baby stopped developing around 8 weeks. Damn.

Moving on to adoption :)
March 22, 2010 - finished PRIDE classes
waiting to begin homestudy sometime in the next two years. That's not a typo - TWO YEARS
Feb 2012 - got a call that they are ready to start our home study...putting off all adoption decisions for at least 6 months because I am 2 weeks from my due date (see below)

Feb 2011 - we've been offered donor embryos! FET in a few months after preliminary tests are done...
FET June 2011:
May 7 - start suprefact and low dose aspirin (on CD21)
May 14 - AF started - super heavy and I'm super cranky. Headaches from the suprefact too
May 21 - starting Estrace and both of us start antibiotics
June 3 - u/s to check lining
June 8 - FET
June 21 - Beta is 564. June 24 Beta is 2286
July 12 - first u/s at 7w1d
Aug 18 - second u/s at 12w4d - everything looks great
Aug 30 - first prenatal appt
Oct 6 - 20w anatomy scan, could find out the sex!
It's a BOY!!
EDD is Feb 26, 2012
beautiful healthy baby boy born March 1, 2012 <3

My friend ButterflyKiss provided this quote from Laura Bush's book and I think it captures how many of us feel:"The English language lacks the words to mourn an absence... for someone who was never there at all, we are wordless to capture that particular emptiness. For those who deeply want children and are denied them, those missing babies hover like silent, ephemeral shadows over their lives. Who can describe the feel of a tiny hand that is never held?"