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#101 melissa87

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Posted 21 March 2021 - 05:51 AM

Awe I appreciate it! I am a little sad but anxious to get started again. Im less confident going in and Im definitely not transferring two embryos this time!

IVF #1: Oct 2018, 8 embryos all untested

FET #1: Jan 2019, 2 transfered, BFP 

DD Born Oct 2019

 

FET #2.1: July 2020 Cancelled due to fluid

FET#2.2: August 2020 Cancelled due to fluid (surgery to fix c section defect in Jan of 2020)

IVF#2: October 2020 5 embryos all untested

FET #2: March 2021 2 transfered BFN

FET#3: April 2021 1 transfered BFN

FET#4.1: May 2021 cancelled due to polyps (hysterscopy to remove polyps) 

FET #4.2: June 2021 cancelled due to double stripped lining

FET #4.3: July 2021 2 transferred BFP 43 1st beta 169 2nd beta 339 3rd beta 3600 First Ultrasound no heartbeat, second ultrasound no heartbeat MC at 8 weeks. 

 

Now a patient at Hannam Fertility 


#102 1118

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Posted 21 March 2021 - 07:24 AM

So sorry to hear, Melissa. Thinking of you.



#103 melissa87

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Posted 21 March 2021 - 07:42 AM

Thanks Im really happy everyone else was successful!

IVF #1: Oct 2018, 8 embryos all untested

FET #1: Jan 2019, 2 transfered, BFP 

DD Born Oct 2019

 

FET #2.1: July 2020 Cancelled due to fluid

FET#2.2: August 2020 Cancelled due to fluid (surgery to fix c section defect in Jan of 2020)

IVF#2: October 2020 5 embryos all untested

FET #2: March 2021 2 transfered BFN

FET#3: April 2021 1 transfered BFN

FET#4.1: May 2021 cancelled due to polyps (hysterscopy to remove polyps) 

FET #4.2: June 2021 cancelled due to double stripped lining

FET #4.3: July 2021 2 transferred BFP 43 1st beta 169 2nd beta 339 3rd beta 3600 First Ultrasound no heartbeat, second ultrasound no heartbeat MC at 8 weeks. 

 

Now a patient at Hannam Fertility 


#104 seansgirl

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Posted 22 March 2021 - 12:19 PM

Im so sorry Melissa.
<p>Me 40; DH 491998 Vasectomy 2008- Failed Reversal Aug. 2009- Referred to FC Nov. 2010- Changed clinicsMar. 2011- Appt to discuss IVF (AMH 32.6)Ape. 2011- Appt with UrologistMay 7th- start BCMay 27th- finish BCJune 1st- AF arrivedJune3rd- Start Gonal F and LuverisJune15th- ER (14 eggs retrieved)June 20th- 2 Blasts transferred, no frostiesJuly 4th- BETA( chemical pregnancy)Feb 2013- second VRApril 2013- we have swimmers!June 14- now dealing with antibodiesSept 6th- Great news from urologist, now to look into IUIFeb. 25/2014- IUI-BFN Now we wait for IVF FundingNov. 2016- on the list for IVF for July 2018 (Hoping to get bumped earlier)March 2018- appt to discuss Funded IVFJune 2018- start pre-treatment meds (AMH 8, AFC 12) July 2018 (AMH 8, AFC 7)July 3rd- start gonal f and menopur. July 16- ER ( 4 eggs, 3 mature) July 22- 1frozen 5AA (day 3 we had 6,7 and 8 cell embryos).October 2020- time to make a plan for a FET in 2021</p><p>January 2021- start with Naturopath and make plans for a Feb or Mar 2021 FET</p><p>Feb 4- Day 1</p><p>Feb 9- start estrogen patchesMarch 2, 2021- transfer of our beautiful 5aa embryoMarch 7th- vf lineMarch 11- Beta 9dp5dt- 241 BFP MC at 6 weeks 😢 September 2021- Consult Appt at new clinic

#105 SD11

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Posted 23 March 2021 - 02:54 PM

Seansgirl - did you get your beta results back?
April 2017 - IVF #1 - 2 embryos
June 2017 FET #1 - BFN
Sept 2017 FET #2 - BFP!
Sept 2019 - IVF #2 - 2 embryos
Sept 2019 - FET #3 - BFN
Aug 2020 - FET #4 - BFN
Oct 2020 - IVF #3 - 4 embryos
Dec 2020 - FET #5 - BFN
March 2021 - FET #6 - BFP!

#106 seansgirl

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Posted 27 March 2021 - 10:05 AM

Hey everyone. Im sorry for responding so late. My betas went up to 9800 and then 17000 but unfortunately it ended for me Tuesday night. I started having severe cramping and then had huge amounts of bleeding and clots. I lost my baby. 😭 Even to write this breaks my heart. This whole process is so unfair and I dont know how people move on from this. This was our one and only embryo. I knew that there was a high risk of miscarriage as it was untested but having great betas gave me hope that this was it for me. Im not in a good place right now. My clinic has been amazing with everything calling and checking on me. My nurse gave me her number to call her I need support. I wish you guys all the best.
<p>Me 40; DH 491998 Vasectomy 2008- Failed Reversal Aug. 2009- Referred to FC Nov. 2010- Changed clinicsMar. 2011- Appt to discuss IVF (AMH 32.6)Ape. 2011- Appt with UrologistMay 7th- start BCMay 27th- finish BCJune 1st- AF arrivedJune3rd- Start Gonal F and LuverisJune15th- ER (14 eggs retrieved)June 20th- 2 Blasts transferred, no frostiesJuly 4th- BETA( chemical pregnancy)Feb 2013- second VRApril 2013- we have swimmers!June 14- now dealing with antibodiesSept 6th- Great news from urologist, now to look into IUIFeb. 25/2014- IUI-BFN Now we wait for IVF FundingNov. 2016- on the list for IVF for July 2018 (Hoping to get bumped earlier)March 2018- appt to discuss Funded IVFJune 2018- start pre-treatment meds (AMH 8, AFC 12) July 2018 (AMH 8, AFC 7)July 3rd- start gonal f and menopur. July 16- ER ( 4 eggs, 3 mature) July 22- 1frozen 5AA (day 3 we had 6,7 and 8 cell embryos).October 2020- time to make a plan for a FET in 2021</p><p>January 2021- start with Naturopath and make plans for a Feb or Mar 2021 FET</p><p>Feb 4- Day 1</p><p>Feb 9- start estrogen patchesMarch 2, 2021- transfer of our beautiful 5aa embryoMarch 7th- vf lineMarch 11- Beta 9dp5dt- 241 BFP MC at 6 weeks 😢 September 2021- Consult Appt at new clinic

#107 melissa87

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Posted 27 March 2021 - 01:02 PM

Seansgirl- that brings tears to my eyes to read that!! Im so so so sorry! I hope you find peace to move on. I cant even imagine how hard that is for you!! I wish I knew what to say to make it better but I cant even imagine!

IVF #1: Oct 2018, 8 embryos all untested

FET #1: Jan 2019, 2 transfered, BFP 

DD Born Oct 2019

 

FET #2.1: July 2020 Cancelled due to fluid

FET#2.2: August 2020 Cancelled due to fluid (surgery to fix c section defect in Jan of 2020)

IVF#2: October 2020 5 embryos all untested

FET #2: March 2021 2 transfered BFN

FET#3: April 2021 1 transfered BFN

FET#4.1: May 2021 cancelled due to polyps (hysterscopy to remove polyps) 

FET #4.2: June 2021 cancelled due to double stripped lining

FET #4.3: July 2021 2 transferred BFP 43 1st beta 169 2nd beta 339 3rd beta 3600 First Ultrasound no heartbeat, second ultrasound no heartbeat MC at 8 weeks. 

 

Now a patient at Hannam Fertility 


#108 SD11

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Posted 28 March 2021 - 06:10 AM

Seansgirl - Im so sorry to read this! I cant even imagine the pain you are feeling. Its so hard when everything is so positive (strong betas etc) and then just robs you. Very unfair and confusing. My greatest fear for sure in this process.
April 2017 - IVF #1 - 2 embryos
June 2017 FET #1 - BFN
Sept 2017 FET #2 - BFP!
Sept 2019 - IVF #2 - 2 embryos
Sept 2019 - FET #3 - BFN
Aug 2020 - FET #4 - BFN
Oct 2020 - IVF #3 - 4 embryos
Dec 2020 - FET #5 - BFN
March 2021 - FET #6 - BFP!

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Posted 28 March 2021 - 07:55 AM

Seansgirl, I am so very sorry to hear this. So unfair.



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Posted 28 March 2021 - 11:48 AM

1118 - when do you go for your ultrasound? How have you been feeling?
April 2017 - IVF #1 - 2 embryos
June 2017 FET #1 - BFN
Sept 2017 FET #2 - BFP!
Sept 2019 - IVF #2 - 2 embryos
Sept 2019 - FET #3 - BFN
Aug 2020 - FET #4 - BFN
Oct 2020 - IVF #3 - 4 embryos
Dec 2020 - FET #5 - BFN
March 2021 - FET #6 - BFP!

#111 1118

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Posted 02 April 2021 - 06:42 AM

Hi SD11. How are you doing?

 

I actually went for my ultrasound on March 26th, and everything looked great. The babies heartbeat was 170!  I was in disbelief!  I had spotting (mostly brown) on and off for a few days that week as well (and a couple days the week before). They could see where there was a little blood and said I may see some brown again, but I haven't yet. I've been having symptoms that come and go, so was very worried but everything was fine! My symptoms were mainly feeling seasick ish (nausea with no vomiting) some days (through night and day), but it didn't start until 6 weeks, and went away for nearly a week in between 6-8 weeks. It was back this week. Yesterday I felt fine, so naturally worried, but then today feel crummy again! My breasts sometimes have surges, but overall are okay. Every once in a while it feels like someone took a big chomp down on them, just for a few seconds haha.

 

I'm waiting for a call for my 12 week ultrasound. Haven't heard anything back yet. Have a couple of blood req's to get done next Friday, at my 10 week mark! We are very excited, but very cautious.  We haven't really told anyone yet, other than my parents and one friend (and all of you ;) ).

 

Sending positive wishes to all. 


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#112 SD11

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Posted 02 April 2021 - 09:43 AM

1118 - nice to hear from you! Your journey so far sounds very similar to mine! I think you are about 1.5-2 weeks ahead of me.
I had my first ultrasound yesterday. Babys heart beat was 156. From what you are describing, the spotting and seeing a bleed on the ultrasound, did they tell you it was a subcorionic hemorrhage? Thats what they said I have. Its very small and most likely will resolve itself but I may or may not experience some light spotting because of it.
So far my symptoms are mild nausea that usually lasts all day and everyday which started at about 6 weeks. No throwing up though. And of course tired.
Ill also be going for some blood work and another ultrasound in a few weeks!
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April 2017 - IVF #1 - 2 embryos
June 2017 FET #1 - BFN
Sept 2017 FET #2 - BFP!
Sept 2019 - IVF #2 - 2 embryos
Sept 2019 - FET #3 - BFN
Aug 2020 - FET #4 - BFN
Oct 2020 - IVF #3 - 4 embryos
Dec 2020 - FET #5 - BFN
March 2021 - FET #6 - BFP!

#113 1118

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Posted 02 April 2021 - 03:26 PM

SD11 - that all sounds wonderful! Funny how similar our journeys are! They did not label it as a subcorionic hemorrhage, however I think that is what it must be. They just said they can see where the bleeding was coming from and can see that there is more there, so I may still get some (though nothing since 7 1/2 weeks).  When do you stop taking your estrogen and progesterone? I am set to stop at 11 weeks. I'm excited to stop, but nervous at the same time. I cannot remember if we take baby aspirin throughout the entire pregnancy, or stop that as well. 



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Posted 02 April 2021 - 09:53 PM

1118- I stop the progesterone at 10 weeks. Im looking forward to it! Im not on baby aspirin or estrogen so I cant comment on those.
April 2017 - IVF #1 - 2 embryos
June 2017 FET #1 - BFN
Sept 2017 FET #2 - BFP!
Sept 2019 - IVF #2 - 2 embryos
Sept 2019 - FET #3 - BFN
Aug 2020 - FET #4 - BFN
Oct 2020 - IVF #3 - 4 embryos
Dec 2020 - FET #5 - BFN
March 2021 - FET #6 - BFP!

#115 1118

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Posted 03 April 2021 - 04:29 PM

That is awesome...almost there! :)