I've been struggling with RPL for 3 years then infertility for another 4 years. I am turning 44 in a few days. I've wanting to leave my husband for the past few years and finally in June this year, he said yes. However, one of his very unreasonable demands is to detroy my precious 3 embryos I had gone through more than 10 IVF cycles to get. The question of whether I can still use the embryos is for another day.
Right now, I am still trying to do 2 fresh IVF cycles. Is it possible to use donor sperm to create embryos without my husband's consent? He said he will not give consent and legally we are still married. It feels like an impossible position to be in and my biological time is certainly running out. Sometimes I feel the only path for me is to stay in the marriage under his misery.
Thanks so much for any advice!