I had a perfect experience with a donor retrievak, beautiful enbryos and a first successful transfer. Got confident as first scan at 7 weeks showed perfect everything....now got to my ten week scan today and baby was gone.....apparently heart must have stopped beating three das ago...im devastated
Sudden unexpected miscarriage at 9.5 weeks
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, Oct 04 2019 01:06 PM
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Posted 04 October 2019 - 01:06 PM
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Posted 04 October 2019 - 02:01 PM
I am so sorry for your loss 
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Posted 04 October 2019 - 06:38 PM
Sorry this happened to you - be gentle with yourself.
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Posted 05 October 2019 - 06:21 AM
Oh no I am so sorry BCMom! That is awful.
TTC since 2013
Unsuccessful IVFs 2014-2016
Unsuccessful known egg donor cycle 2018
Donor Egg Bank Assured Refund plan 2019
Two unsuccessful DE transfers 2019
Unsuccessful DE transfer 2020
DE transfer Nov 2020 - BFP
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Posted 05 October 2019 - 08:04 PM
I am so sorry for your loss
Thank you annatarz.....i have never gone through this before and i am so sad and scared.....nothing pointed in this direction....it helps to hear caring words
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Posted 05 October 2019 - 08:06 PM
Sorry this happened to you - be gentle with yourself.
Sorry this happened to you - be gentle with yourself.
Thank you mouse....i keep thinking of what i must have done wrong....it all makes no sense. I am in shock.
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Posted 05 October 2019 - 08:10 PM
Oh no I am so sorry BCMom! That is awful.
Thank you Daisy....it all seems like a cruel joke....everything picture perfect and then bam!! Like too good to be true and i felt that.... Now i get to be one that worries all through the pg if i ever get pregnant again.....
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