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Another Chance for a BFP

Posted by nextchapter , 01 December 2011 · 1154 views

It's wonderful to think that I have another chance for a BFP. We will be doing a FET in January and I am looking forward to the possibility of being pregnant again. After my m/c we decided to try a natrual BDing cycle, but no such luck. With some time after my m/c I feel I am ready to do it again.

My DH and I have a plan. Right now, we are renting a 1 bd apartment and absolutely hating it. Our credit card's maxed out and our overdraft is maxed out and everything is maxed out and it's Christmas time and time to visit family and spend money for gifts. But we still have a plan to spend more and more money to make our dream come true. If this FET doesn't pan out, we will do another fresh IVF/ICSI in March and if I get frozen embryos than another FET and then if nothing out of all that we will move to Ontario and try in Ontario. That's what we hope but we may end up staying here a bit longer if we have no money left after our 3 IVF's and 2 FET's in a span of 10 months.

It's funny, but I never thought we'd be one of the couples who are struggling within IVF.... I mean, we struggle with TTC and that is why we do IVF to make the struggle lessen, not worsen. So when I entered this journey I thought, yeah it'll happen on our first try. Yes, we were grateful that it happened on our second try but it didn't end so well. So here is our third attempt. Statistically IVF patients can do up to 3 treatment cycles before they have a baby so I still have a chance to make that happen.

So my outlook is positive and will always remain positive- I am ready for the possibility again.

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Good luck with your FET!
Dec 02 2011 01:38 PM
Good luck with your FET! Your determination makes me think of my own situation. Flat broke but will to give it all for that baby:)

I'm glad I am not the only one sitting maxed out and wondering why this is do darn hard.

We opted out of gift giving this holiday season...thankfully for DH just got walked out of his job today. I don't have any buyers remorse for gifts, since I didn't buy any. Actually makes me feel like I won that tiny battle.

I got my fingers crossed that you catch a positive train and ride it the entire length of the ride soon enough:)
Dec 02 2011 08:55 PM
thanks sweetestdream- i read some of your blog and it sincerely touched me.. the journey we are on is soo tough but soo worth it at the end..thanks for the kind words!
I hope your FET next month works out for you, you've been through so much. I wish you success and happiness, and just wanted to say how much I admire your determination and spirit, keep it up and hang in there. You're an inspiration.
Dec 04 2011 04:25 AM
I love your attitude, that you are looking forward to this being another opportunity instead of something you have to go through to get a baby. Way to go!
I hear you!! Your situation is a lot similar to ours. I wish you best of luck and happy to know your not giving up. Im about to go for my first FET on Tuesday.. FX
Wishing you all the best with your FET! I really do hope that this FET is the one that makes it all happen.
Dec 04 2011 07:01 PM
Thanks everyone for your positive words..i'm a little slump now..i think it's the BCP or something so it's a bit harder to stay positive..but hopefully i'll get outta this slump!

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