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This is harder than I expected....

Posted by Jayna , 30 April 2010 · 913 views

Having gone through pregnancy loss multiple times, I didn't expect this chemical pregnancy to be so difficult to deal with. Why is it hitting me so hard to lose a pregnancy before it even started?? I think because I had so much invested in this pregnancy, knowing it would be my last shot unless we wanted to do another fresh cycle. I think it's also because it has put doubts in my mind. When we did the first IVF cycle I just KNEW it would work and we would get our baby....and we did. I thought the same thing with the FET...why wouldn't it work? Well, it didn't. Now we have to do another fresh cycle.....what if that doesn't work? I only got 4 embryos out of the first try, and that was two years ago. Obviously, I have aged and so have my eggs. Ugggg, I hate this roller coaster!! It's soooo draining!




I know many of the feelings you're experiencing at this time, Jayna.

It's not easy, but you will come through the other side.

All the best to you,

Zan
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nervus optimist
Apr 30 2010 01:20 PM
I'm sorry
Hugs Jayna!
You WILL get a positive on your next FRESH cycle!!! Make sure you speak to the Doctor about tweeking your protocol this time. I also was a "Poor Responder" and I regret not having my protocal tweeked a bit more before we started the 2nd time, could have saved a ton of worry.

Let yourself grieve the loss...

xoxox
K
:) (((HUGS)))
Odds are cut in half if Im not mistaken with frozen embrios. So I believe a fresh IVF cycle is the winning cycle for you :-)

I wish my second IVF protocal was tweeked as well. Maybe it would have worked or I would have had more chances at success? Why dont the doctors tweek the protocal? Why do we have to ask them to?

Very frustrating for sure. I understand how you feel and it really sucks.


Pam

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